Listen: I have a three-fold spiritual (and mental health) practice that I like to call “wonder-wonder-wander”. It has become especially relevant to me in recent months while this pandemic winter drags on and threatens to drag me under the waves of melancholy...
Holding the sadness
by Heather Plett | Dec 3, 2020 | Grief, Holding Space for Yourself, Safe Space
Listen to Heather read the post... Yesterday, I came undone. It’s been a rough week. With our province on lockdown (no restaurants, gyms, coffee shops or movie theatres are open, and stores can only sell essential items), the infection numbers staying...
The other side of despair
by Heather Plett | Oct 7, 2020 | Brave Space, Complexity, Fear, Grief, Holding Space for Others, Holding Space for Yourself, Liminal Space
listen to me read the post... I remember that moment clearly. I was sitting in the rocking chair in the tiny living room of the first home I owned with my ex-husband, I was five months pregnant with my first daughter, and I was in complete and utter despair. I...
Holding space when the emotions are big and unguarded
by Heather Plett | Sep 1, 2020 | Brave Space, Community, Holding Space for Others, Holding Space for Yourself
Listen to Heather read the post... A couple of weeks ago, I shared a video on social media of the moment I first glimpsed a printed copy of my book. It was a fun little moment – one I’ve waited many years for – and I wanted to share it with my friends and...
How does one become an “expert” in holding space? First, you fumble.
by Heather Plett | Jul 29, 2020 | Brave Space, Family, Grief, Holding Space for Others, Liminal Space
Listen to me read this post... Here we are, five years after my blog post on how to hold space went viral, and we’ve just launched the global Centre for Holding Space. It’s exciting and gratifying and also a little nerve-wracking. I couldn’t have imagined this even as...
Ten practices for the liminal space
by Heather Plett | May 15, 2020 | Holding Space for Yourself, Liminal Space
Listen to me read the post: We’re now a couple of months into The Great Pause (i.e. pandemic). We’ve baked all the bread, learned to cut our own hair, logged too many hours on Zoom, built elaborate islands on Animal Crossing, adapted to the new protocol at the grocery...
When the space you hold is too safe
by Heather Plett | Sep 12, 2019 | Brave Space, Facilitation, Holding Space for Others, Safe Space
Last week I had the pleasure of hosting a retreat with a circle of beautiful women in one of the most beautiful locations I’ve ever worked. The retreat centre was so beautiful and luxurious, in fact, that it wouldn’t have surprised me to see Oprah emerge from a room...
The Wounded Parent: Raising kids while we do our own healing work
by Heather Plett | Aug 6, 2019 | Family, Holding Space for Others, Holding Space for Yourself
Our vacation didn’t start well. We’d barely arrived at our AirBnB apartment when my daughter and I got into an argument. Only one of us could have a bedroom to herself for the week we were there. My daughter had done the research on where to stay in Chicago and had...
The beauty of having space held for you
by Heather Plett | Mar 4, 2019 | Holding Space for Yourself, Safe Space, Sovereignty
I have a confession to make. I’m not very good at letting people hold space for me. It’s true. I’ve built my work around what it means to hold space, and I understand how valuable it is, and yet… I often bump up against resistance around asking and/or allowing people...
Leadership for times like these
by Heather Plett | Oct 31, 2018 | Circle, Facilitation, Holding Space for Yourself, Leadership
“I don’t think of myself as a leader.” I hear that statement often from my clients and I understand it – I used to say the same thing myself. It wasn’t until a special mentor/boss took me aside and told me that she saw leadership ability in me and then offered me my...
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