Listen to Krista read the post... This week, I sent my kids back to school after having had them home since March. I thought I was ready. I thought I was calm and cool and in a place of acceptance, knowing that things were going to be strange and that they...
Holding space when the emotions are big and unguarded
by Heather Plett | Sep 1, 2020 | Brave Space, Community, Holding Space for Others, Holding Space for Yourself
Listen to Heather read the post... A couple of weeks ago, I shared a video on social media of the moment I first glimpsed a printed copy of my book. It was a fun little moment – one I’ve waited many years for – and I wanted to share it with my friends and...
Find Your People. Be Each Other’s People.
by Krista dela Rosa | Aug 3, 2020 | Brave Space, Community, Complexity, Holding Space for Yourself, Leadership
The Start of a Love Story for Community I have a confession to make. I am terrified of letting you read this post. I told Heather once that, most of the time, I would rather strip down naked and go for a walk down my street than let people read my writing. She was...
Ten practices for the liminal space
by Heather Plett | May 15, 2020 | Holding Space for Yourself, Liminal Space
Listen to me read the post: We’re now a couple of months into The Great Pause (i.e. pandemic). We’ve baked all the bread, learned to cut our own hair, logged too many hours on Zoom, built elaborate islands on Animal Crossing, adapted to the new protocol at the grocery...
The Wounded Parent: Raising kids while we do our own healing work
by Heather Plett | Aug 6, 2019 | Family, Holding Space for Others, Holding Space for Yourself
Our vacation didn’t start well. We’d barely arrived at our AirBnB apartment when my daughter and I got into an argument. Only one of us could have a bedroom to herself for the week we were there. My daughter had done the research on where to stay in Chicago and had...
The beauty of having space held for you
by Heather Plett | Mar 4, 2019 | Holding Space for Yourself, Safe Space, Sovereignty
I have a confession to make. I’m not very good at letting people hold space for me. It’s true. I’ve built my work around what it means to hold space, and I understand how valuable it is, and yet… I often bump up against resistance around asking and/or allowing people...
Leadership for times like these
by Heather Plett | Oct 31, 2018 | Circle, Facilitation, Holding Space for Yourself, Leadership
“I don’t think of myself as a leader.” I hear that statement often from my clients and I understand it – I used to say the same thing myself. It wasn’t until a special mentor/boss took me aside and told me that she saw leadership ability in me and then offered me my...
Four kinds of fear (what the self-help books might be missing)
by Heather Plett | Jun 26, 2016 | Holding Space for Yourself
Fear. It shows up in nearly every coaching conversation I have. Sometimes it’s bold and in-your-face and can’t be denied, and sometimes it’s sneaky and disguised as anger or laziness and has to be coaxed out into the light. Fear fills a lot of pages in self-help...
How to hold space for yourself first
by Heather Plett | Mar 18, 2015 | Holding Space for Yourself
Anytime we can listen to true self and give it the care it requires, we do so not only for ourselves but for the many others whose lives we touch. – Parker Palmer, Let your Life Speak When I shared my post about what it means to hold space for people and it went...
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